Saturday, February 21, 2026

My Life as a violinist

To make one's living as a violinist/violin teacher requires a number of fortuitous steps that probably need to happen in a particular order. This is my particular journey.....

It  helps to have a dominant parent to guide and promote your musical growth. In my case it was my father who loved music but chose being a missionary to India/pastor in America as his profession. He played violin as a hobby. I was the first born child and some of my earliest memories are of hearing him play his violin in our living room at our home in Umalla, India.

My  story begins at Prospect Point the vacation home for Church of the Brethren missionaries near Sisters Bazaar in Landour/Mussoorie, in the foothills of the Himalayas. I was recovering from chicken pox and my Dad gave me a half size violin he had purchased in Mussoorie. There was no bow yet

. "See if you can pluck out Twinkle Star."he suggested.

I was six years old, but according to family lore he observed that I spent nearly an hour before somewhat succeeding at the task. Soon a bow was added and he began sessions where I learned tunes by rote, a system like the Suzuki method before there was such.  

The family returned to the work at Umalla and my Dad designed rote lessons for a while. Next he introduced the onerous lessons where one had to read the notes. I balked at that but he kindly insisted. He picked easy familiar tunes such as hymns and ditties.  

From them he introduced me to the Kalliwoda duets. We moved to Anklesvar, and a Bollinger family whose teen age son, Dick, who played violin quite well would occasionally visit and make music with Dad. There was  also a trip to Mumbai to hear  the Mumbai Symphony but I was  not impressed. World War II was winding down and soon we were on our way back to Virginia and the family homeplace near Green Hill Church of the Brethren.

By now I had three younger brothers. John was soon given a trumpet and received some rudimentary lessons. The tempo of my father's work increased and I began lessons with a Mrs. Spruhan of Salem, Virginia.  I performed at a cousin's wedding. And in a few years the family was back in India.

I attended Woodstock School in the foothills of the Himalayas. Played in the school 's orchestra. I took lessons from Mr. DeNaroma the orchestra conductor and violinist. I may have begun some Kreutzer etudes. I must have not made the requisite progress so my father had me get some good coaching from Judy Schiller a senior student at the behest of my Dad.

Returned to the Roanoke area and my father had me take lessons from the concertmeister of the newly organized Roanoke Symphony, Carl Jaspan. It was this man who showed me how to practice, knew how to inspire me and invited me to join the Roanoke Symphony. I began to grow seriously as a musician. And then my father took a pastorate at Mathias, WV. To keep me progressing, my father put me with Edgar Anderson, strings professor at Madison College in Harrisonburg. 

Next, I attended Shenandoah Conservatory at Dayton, Virginia, married Lib Flory, finished college at Bridgewater and taught two years of elementary school. Decided to go for a Master's degree at James Madison which was morphing into a university. I completed course work and while teaching at Lynchburg connected with Roger Taylor who was playing in the Roanoke Symphony. He invited me to rejoin which I did. Family and friends helped me parlay that into a job teaching Strings in Roanoke City schools. That was how I made it my career. Lib and our baby daughter, Lisa, soon joined me and my career got underway.

The girls grew and I repeated my father's teaching with them. They played in my school ensembles and Cathy decided to play cello. We switched her over and later we formed a trio/quartet and played weddings. The girls joined the Roanoke Youth Symphony and also played in our Regional and All State orchestras. Our Patrick Henry String orchestra did well at District VI adjudications. Our family joined First Baptist and joined their musical activities.

During this decade I I also was associated with Virginia Music Camp as part of their faculty at Massenetta Springs Conference Center and the the conductors orchestra sponsored by the American Symphony Orchestra League  at Orkney Springs, Virginia. AI verified a 1970 year I was there in the 2cnd  violin section.

In my last decades with the Roanoke City schools I was invited to play a dinner engagement at the Greenbrier Resort Hotel by Hal Walls. My accompanist was  a well known music professor at Hollins University. I was quite nervous at my first gig in the Crystal dining room, but he made me feel at ease. Several weeks that summer Hal called again and we did another. That summer the Greenbrier decade and a half began. I was repeating symphony repertoire so I made the decision to drop the Symphony.

Soon he became unavailable and I had to find another accompanist. Someone recommended a Camille Caruthers at First Baptist. We did the first gig at the Greenbrier and then another until she was one of the main pianists there. The regular gig went something like this as memory serves:

Leaved Roanoke around 2:30. Arrive at the Greenbrier around 4 pm. Play a Tea set for an hour, eat supper downstairs where the other hotel workers ate. Go to either the Crystal or Main dining room and play from 7:30 to about  10 pm with 15 minute breaks. It was pleasant work and paid well. We would get home around midnight. For me these gigs occurred several times a week and much more her as she was the main accompanist for another very elderly violinist who lived in the town. We also played private parties in some of the other conference rooms. With other combinations I played weddings and other celebratory occasions or as a strolling violinist.

I began to have significant problems standing. One time Jim Glazebrook was there at the Greenbrier. He was the concertmeister of the Roanoke Symphony. I introduced them to each other. One time I just couldn't play and she called him. Later, they married and my time at the Greenbrier was essentially over.

A few years later we moved to Midlothian, Virginia to be near our daughter Cathy. I joined the Richmond Philharmonic, played about 10 years with them and made some fine contacts that I parlayed into a fruitful decade of quartet playing. When I was about 86, old age made it advisable to end my public musucal activites.

Since I'm writing this in my last years, I can't vouch for the accuracy of the years, only general memories. 


 










  

Saturday, February 7, 2026

Feb. 7, 2026 more winter

When I went to bed last night I thought we were over the snow thing. This morning Lib and I woke up to another inch on the ground and in the trees. This is the second week of real winter in our area. Feels like we live in Vermont, not in Richmond, Virginia area. Maybe this will truly be our last winter week.  
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This is the view out our kitchen window about 8:30 this morning. Our fridge went on the blink yesterday so we're in the throes of shopping for a new one that fits all of Libs requirements. Our 
daughter, Cathy, will be in on the planning, I hope. She just had one installed about a year ago. 

Cathy came over around 1 pm and brought along a professional tape measure. Took measurements and looked at models that would fit our space. Later on Jeff, her husband arrived and corroborated her statistics. Lib and Cathy narrowed down the few available options and Cathy called in the order. Think it was pretty much done in about an hour. About this time next week we will be back to normal. So good to have knowledgeable adult children who know their way around knotty household problems.

Friday, February 6, 2026

February 6,2026 THE MESSAGE OF THE MONKS!!

Well it's been a very wintery week since the end of January. Snow is still on the ground as it hasn't been above freezing all this time. Last Sunday it was so bad that we didn't have church at church.Instead about 8 of us did a Zoom meeting online. Hadn't done that in a long time so needed a little coaching but finally got together. 

Yesterday our venerable fridge gave up two of its vital functions. Talked to Jeff who bought a fridge last year and he was able to help me begin to line some things up. Cathy is coming over tomorrow and we should have a new one in sometime next week. Lisa did FaceTime with us this pm. And it snowed again this afternoon for several hours. Weather is not easy to predict...snow was suppoaed to arrive around suppertime not at  4 pm. It coated the trees and made them look pretty. Our walkways didn't freeze over so I was able to get out in the car for a few errands. 

The big event in our part of the world was the Walk for Peace by the band of Buddhist monks from  their monastary in Texas! A group of some 19 men, in their saffron robes began their march/walk back in mid October, walking some 20+ miles each day. They would interact with people on their march, esplaining when asked, what and why they were doing it. Our world which is so in need of "peace" received their words with graciousness for the most part. It is my impression that their influence which now seems miniscule, will just grow as it piggy backs on the words of of our Lord annd Master, Jesus the Christ. They were accompanied by their dog, another bringer of peace to countless people who own pet dogs. 

I am slowly reaquainting myself with my computer and the tasks associated with blogging. As I've said several times, at 88 years old, my time among the living has to be short. This is just one little voice saying, "I'M HERE " and here is what I experienced of that time. I am so moved and impressed by the soft gentleness of these men as they step one foot  in front of the other, day by day, inviting the world to lay down the instruments of hate and death.

If you've landed here, I invite you to learn more of what makes me, me. Look at some of my earliest blogs where I describe my earliest days in India at Woodstock School, Prospect Point, and how I loved the Himalayas! 

Be blessed!

Monday, January 26, 2026

January 26, More on this storm....

So thankful we still have water and electricity. Have heard from a few neighbors and friends inquiring about us. Glad we can give a good report. I'm starting this one around 4:35 Sunday evening. It's cloudy and what may be coming down is still very tiny, maybe frozen fog droplets. Not sticking... so no threat to power lines yet. It's been a quiet, uneventful Sunday. Our Wilmington, DE family is vacationing in sunny Barbados this week. Lucky them.

12:30 Monday: We came through the past night with no losses. Temperatures rising to 30 degrees. YAY! Some forecasts call for low single digit temps tonight. I hope not!!! Not much more to report so will close this reportage until something startling occurs.

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Jan.24, 2026 A BIG SNOW WINTER EVENT


 It's 1:30 pm this Saturday pm and the weather forecasters are talking up a humongous winter snow event. Supposed to last a few days into next week. Our church has already cancelled tomorrow's service. Yesterday I went back over to Kroger to get Lib's medication and some more groceries and liquids to tide us over in case the worst case scenarios materialize. At the worst it could last until midweek. Just a few minutes ago an area near us reported loss of electricity. 

Ir's 1:30 pm as I write and snow is not touted to arrive until around 6:00 pm. Then somewhere before midnight the question becomes sleet/freezing rain? Preferably sleet as it bounces off wires.... freezing rain sticks and causes power lines to become non functional from breakage. Our new Governor has already advised to stay off roads beginning tomorrow morning (Sunday)/if things become treacherous...... signing off at 1:45 pm until conditions change.

8:44 pm: we fixed and had an early supper anticipating snow around 6 pm. After supper we filled several buckets and waste baskets with water in case the water shut down. The temps remained at 20 degrees. It was now that   I checked and saw that it was finally snowing. Almost 3 hours after it was supposed to. One forecast called for a light snow thru the night. Hope to get some photos of this event to place here...

11:40 pm  still snowing. Temp     18 degrees. Snowing lightly. Signing out until tomorrow. We have everything working as of this time. 

Sunday 8:55 Grateful we have electricity and water. Appears we had about 1.5 inches of snow/precipitation. This was a huge system stretching scross almost all of the lower third of the nation. Temperature remains around 19 degrees. I got up several times during the night and what came down was the fine crystalline variety. Around 4 am it appeared to have ceased. 


Wednesday, December 31, 2025

Last Day of 2025 Dec.31.

 Dear Reader!

Well, here it is.... and Lib and I have surpassed many odds to have arrived at this moment in time.We quietly celebrated 69 years of marriage, welcomed children, grandchildren and great grandchildren into our family, and have watched as human intellect has changed the world enormously since we entered on the stage to play our parts. Our greatest disappointment is that with all the technological advances we still waste sinful amounts of our resources on wars of conquest. The lines of states and countries change at whim it seems as rulers we have installed, or have seized power change them. Without war there would be resources that would allow all to live decently which I have not described.

At 88.5 there have been noticeable changes in our lives. We are measurably weaker which is to be expected. This observation for those approaching our age. Several faculties that still functioned well this time last year are perhaps 10-15% less efficient now. My mind still works well enough to use our electronic devices and spell checkers now even guess at next words! In normal conversation there are embarrassing  halts as a name, concept, or thought suddenly goes blank. I have succumbed to the now popular notion that substituting honey for sweetening may reverse this malady.

I plan to blog here at least monthly.... it's a good place to save my thoughts. And dear reader you are more than welcome to follow along another pilgrim's journey on this adventure called " life". There were 5 siblings in our family. I am the oldest. Now I and my youngest brother, Mike, are left. He just turned 80 and is in much better condition than I was at that age. 

So, goodbye 2025. You were kind to us.

WELCOME 2026 !!




 

Tuesday, December 9, 2025

2cnd snow on heels of first....


 Monday morning while it was dark I checked to see if it had started to snow.... nothing. Around 7:30 I checked again and it was a mixture of rain and flakes.Lib and I settled in, curious as to how the day would develop. Later in the morning it changed to all snow. By noon it was beginning to coat the limbs.

The temps dropped into the freezing area and serious precipitation began. We had called our heat repair because the heat pump was running continuously. They didn't answer until yesterday, but reassured us that we were probably ok as the house was where we had set the thermostat. Forcast said the night temps would be in the mid teens!

Then the excitement began around 4:45 when the power blinked once and then went off! When that happens one wonders whether a squirr


el got suddenly fricasseed or something more serious.  Dark arrives around 5:30 this time of year. Supper plans might have to change, phones and iPads checked for remaining power. (Lib and I still have the old service as a backup), other light sources located and fresh batteries installed if needed. About an hour later Cathy let us know that our power company said 20,000 were out in our area and that it could return between  6 and 11 pm. The house was beginning to feel chilly and we had cold cereal for supper. Beginning to think about donning some heavy jackets and thinking about where in our closets they might be.

A little past 6:30 pm the power returned and we breathed a huge sigh of relief.